"disobliging" in the verb sense
1. trouble, put out, inconvenience, disoblige, discommode, incommode, bother
to cause inconvenience or discomfort to
"Sorry to trouble you, but..."
2. disoblige
ignore someone's wishes
"disobliging" in the adjective sense
1. disobliging, uncooperative
intentionally unaccommodating
"the action was not offensive to him but proved somewhat disobliging"
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