"disobliging" in the verb sense
1. trouble, put out, inconvenience, disoblige, discommode, incommode, bother
to cause inconvenience or discomfort to
"Sorry to trouble you, but..."
ignore someone's wishes
"disobliging" in the adjective sense
1. disobliging, uncooperative
"the action was not offensive to him but proved somewhat disobliging"
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