Husbands are in heaven whose wives chide not. [ Proverb ]

If she do frown, it is not in hate of you,
But rather to beget more love in you:
If she do chide, it is not to have you gone;
For why, the fools are mad if left alone.
Take no repulse, whatever she doth say;
For - get you gone - she doth not mean - away. [ William Shakespeare ]

Chide a friend in private and praise him in public. [ Solon ]

While his off-heel, insidiously aside. Provokes the caper which he seems to chide. [ Sheridan ]